When you read the title of this notes, I believe everyone will be agree with that statement. But, have you ever ask to yourself, are we strong enough to follow our will ? Some people do, but most of people too weak to make their dreams come true. In the fact, most of people surrender and just follow their fate without trying harder to find what they really want.
First thing that we have to remember is to be thankful for everything happened in our life, bad or good. When we can accept the bad things, then we must be so easy to accept the good things. Many people acted negatively when their found trouble and pain in their life, then they started questioning about ‘why’ and ‘if’. The right question that we should ask when trouble comes is ‘what’ and ‘how’. ‘What we have to do now’, and ‘how we can change the situation or how we can handle the situation’. We must believe that we can change everything if we want to, we must believe that we have quality and power to change our fate in positive way.
First thing that we have to remember is to be thankful for everything happened in our life, bad or good. When we can accept the bad things, then we must be so easy to accept the good things. Many people acted negatively when their found trouble and pain in their life, then they started questioning about ‘why’ and ‘if’. The right question that we should ask when trouble comes is ‘what’ and ‘how’. ‘What we have to do now’, and ‘how we can change the situation or how we can handle the situation’. We must believe that we can change everything if we want to, we must believe that we have quality and power to change our fate in positive way.
I was in the position who had questioning why and if, when I was married at very young age (16th yro) and when I’ve got divorced 12 years after married. I felt terrible and hopeless. Fortunately, I could passed all the trouble by myself rightly, eventhough my married was failed. I said rightly, because what already happened in my life did not make me weak and surrender. I am a fighter. I kept studying until I got my degree and I can effort my life by my own. When I’ve got divorced, I can take care of my children and give them good education, love and nice life. Even, I am not rich but I can effort almost everything that my children need and we are happy enough with our life. Thinking the situation when I found myself pregnant and so young, I was scared, weak and unstable. Lucky me, I am always have the right question in my mind that made me struggle. It happened again when I found my husband leaving me to someone new. It felt like hell ! Hurt, dissapointed and scared, I just keep believing about the point of my will. I want to raise my children, I live for them, I cry for them, I am happy for them. It makes me strong and move on. I can imagine if I am stuck and always questioning ‘why’ and ‘if’. I will go no where.
People can be so lucky, if they can change the words “I can’t” or “I won’t” with the right words “ I can” and “I want”. That lucky people must be smiling when read this notes. Congratulation guys ! Don’t let the situation defeat you, let yourself defeat the situation, even the path is not always easy. Life is a Miracle !
By Mutiara Moerdani.
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